"I got my hair done, my nails done and I got my little, very little black dress. I should bring enough attention to myself with this dress but all eyes will be on my lace stockings!"
Yes, she got legs and she knows how to use them...remember that song? Some of us over 35 do, lol! Well, bare legs are not the style but "jeggings", tights, and patterned stockings are now the norm, along with even more less revealing clothing. This type of clothing may look good but to some it can send the wrong message.
When you wear this type of clothing, some men want to take advantage of some women. Some men think that your chest, your butt and your legs have now sprouted lips and they are saying, "I'm easy" or "If you pay for my drink, I got something for you too ~wink wink~"! That is not always the case and women need to realize that you can still have fun and be safe as well.
If in any event that a guy does get the wrong impression and no is mistaken for yes, please know that it was not your fault. If you do feel bad about the situation, that is understandable. The guy could have mentally or physically abused you and has now put you in a place where you don't know what to do. My opinion, seek help as soon as possible whether it be counseling or going to your local hospital to seek medical attention. If you are in shock as far as should you cry or call the police, at least call the National Rape/Sexual Assault line @ 800-656-4673.
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